I'm a 40-something woman living in a small, beautiful country with my husband, our middle schooler, a very enthusiastic cocker spaniel, and a cat who has opinions.
I've spent my career in marketing — different companies, different specialisations, always doing well enough that people thought I had it together. The secret? I wasn't sure I did. I spent years thinking I was lazy, unmotivated, and quietly faking competence.
Then, one afternoon, I stumbled across an article about ADHD in adult women. I read it. Then another. Then I cried — because for the first time, someone had described my entire inner life back to me. That was the beginning of this.
Welcome.
This is where I write about the stuff nobody told me when I was diagnosed with anxiety in my 40s — and started recognising ADHD traits that had quietly co-existed all along. The relief of finally understanding some of it. The strange grief of re-seeing your whole life through a new lens.
The small wins, the spectacular fails, and the ongoing negotiation between who I am and who I thought I was supposed to be.
I’m a marketing professional, a wife, a mum, a dog-and-cat person — figuring it out mid-flight.
If any of that sounds familiar, pull up a chair.
The Busy Hum Planner was born out of frustration with every other planner I'd tried. Too rigid. Too many boxes. Too much guilt when I skipped a day (or a week). This one is different because I built it for the way my brain actually works: non-linear, easily overwhelmed, and desperately in need of a system that doesn't punish me for being human.